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1. Marriage belongs to God

Marriage belongs to God

Marriage was Created, Designed, Formed, Instructed and Instituted by God to Glorify God. A Marriage that is altered from what God Instructed does not Glorify God.

 


2. Marriage: Difference between Responsibility and Accountability

Marriage: Husband and Wife have Responsibilities, but the Husband have Accountability

Both (Husband and Wife were hiding from God) when God came looking for them but notice what God says in Genesis 3:9 "Then the LORD God called to Adam (Man) and said to him, “Where are you?” They both were Wrong and Hiding Together but God only Called Out the Man. (Why?)

Because God did not make Adam and Eve together, But God made Adam first and then spent some alone time with Adam (Man) Instructing him (Man) and making him (Man) Accountable in the Marriage even before the Wife (Woman) was Created. In Marriage Husband and Wife have Responsibilities, but the Husband has Accountability.

 


3a. Why Does the Bible say the Husband is the Head of the Wife

Genesis 2:22 "Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. And Adam said: This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; [She shall be called woman], because she was taken out of Man."

  
Don't miss it: God made the woman (from) man and then brought the woman (to) man and then it was (man that named the woman).

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3b. Husband and Wife do not Fight for Equality in Marriage

1 Peter 3:7 "Likewise, ye husbands (Man), dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife (Woman), as unto the weaker vessel [physically].

The female has what the man wants beauty and delicacy. The male has what the female wants courage and strength.

The one is as good in its place as the other: and by these things God has made equality between the man and the woman, so that there is no superiority on either side
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4. God Tells the Husband (Man) something but not the Wife (Woman)

Why did God Tell the Husband (Man) and not the Wife (Woman)

"Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." (Genesis 2:24)
 
"For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." (Matthew 19:5)

"For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." (Ephesians 5:31)

Because in Marriage Husband and Wife have Responsibilities, but the Husband has Accountability.

Become one Flesh means for the Husband (Man) and Wife (Woman) to share in the same Thoughts and Desires according the Will, Way and Word of God.

 


5. Three Things are Required in Marriage

Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding of what Marriage is

"This can only come from God because God Created, Designed, Formed, Instructed and Instituted Marriage to bring Glory to Himself.

 


6. So many Broken and Dysfunctional Marriages and Devoices Today

One Reason

Many Christians Do Not Know and Understand that there are Two Parts to Marriage:

Spiritual: Foundations and Principles

Practical: Tools and Activities

 


7. Love is the Foundation of Marriage

If Love is the Foundation of Marriage

When the two People in the Marriage have a Different Meaning and Understanding of what Love is there will be a Problem.

 


8. Marriages that Need Help

Sometimes Marriages Do Not Need Counseling

Sometimes Marriages with Problems do not need Counseling, but they need Marriage Support from another Married Team.

Sometimes

Marriage Counseling: Identifies Problems with People

Marriage Support: Identifies Tools People need for a Good Marriage

 


9. Song of Solomon 1

A Song of Marital Love

The Bride and the Bridegroom together in a Wonderful Relationship Expressing their Love by Cherishing Each Other with their Words.

Words have a Powerful Affect and a Powerful Influence in a Relationship.